For years, Susie, a successful, "tough-as-nails" corporate executive, was stuck in a pattern. Despite her success, she was on her third company and third marriage, where she repeatedly faced chauvinistic bosses and partners who reminded her of her abusive father. She was in the trauma trigger time loop experience, attracting the only thing her subconscious knew: abuse.
Her breakthrough came not from re-telling her painful story, but in a moment of freezing—a nervous system shutdown—that showed her the pattern.
Stepping Out of Fate
Susie had been pushing her pain down and blaming external circumstances. I reassured her that the EDHIR® process was created specifically so that one does not have to relive the trauma. Instead, it’s a heart-centered modality that works to bring disconnected aspects of self—parts that left during the trauma as a self-preservation mechanism—back home.
The Heart-Centered Journey to Wholeness
1. Relax and Connect: Guided into a deep, relaxed state using diaphragmatic breathing to activate the parasympathetic nervous system, Susie’s body felt safe.
2. The Inner Meeting: She was guided to her Superconscious self (a 360-degree observer) and invited in her younger, disconnected aspects: an 8-year-old and an angsty 17-year-old.
3. Healing the Inner Child: Facing her 8-year-old self, Susie had a profound emotional release, crying for the first time in a decade. This was her heart awakening, as years of pent-up emotion finally bubbled to the surface for conscious digestion.
4. The Sacred Commitment: Susie made a conscious commitment to her inner child: "From this day forward, I take full responsibility for you... I promise to keep you safe, see you, hear you, love you, and accept you." This powerful act let her biological parents "off the hook" and established her adult self as the ultimate protector.
5. Integration: The 8-year-old agreed to merge back into her, making her whole again. After more effort, the resistant 17-year-old followed suit.
The Grand Finale: A Lioness in the Boardroom
Post-integration, Susie participated in role-playing to test her new state. The "lioness" appeared as she practiced new communication tools, such as speaking up and demanding respect.
The next day, she entered her board meeting as an integrated, confident, and whole woman. She commanded respect, successfully navigated interruptions, and received kudos. When asked if any of her bosses reminded her of her father, she simply said, "No." The pattern had been broken. She was relating differently to herself and to the world, and she has since attracted a healthier partner.
The EDHIR® process is mind-body work for the soul-led modern individual ready for sustainable peace, alignment, and true freedom from the trauma trigger time loop.
